Title - The Rules of Survival
Author - Nancy Werlin
# of Pages - 272
Genre - Realistic Fiction
Most every child has some complaint about their parents. Maybe they wish they were given a little more freedom, or a later curfew, or a better cell phone plan. However, Matthew Walsh, the main character in Nancy Werlin's young adult book The Rules of Survival, has far, far more to complain about. Matt's mom, Nikki, is certifiably crazy. She is domineering, angry, violent, and unpredictable, and often takes out her rage on Matt and his two younger sisters, Callie and Emmy. Matt thinks he can handle whatever Nikki dishes out until she begins doing things that make him worry for not only his own safety, but that of his sisters, too. When Nikki plays chicken with a semi on the highway, Matt finally realizes he needs to do something.
Having already tried talking to his MIA father and the police, Matt searches for help anywhere he can find it, and eventually finds a friend in one of Nikki's ex-boyfriends, Murdoch. However, even someone as tough as Murdoch may not be able to deal with Nikki's psychotic behavior.
Having read a few books about kids trying to find their way out of a bad home situation, I had some expectations about the plot going into this book - kids are in trouble, no one believes them, things get worse, eventually they find a potential way out. And, for the most part, this book followed this sort of generic plot line. With that said, there were enough interesting parts throughout the book to hold my interest, and the unpredictably of Matt's mom, Nikki, left me wondering what she'd do next. I liked the fact that Werlin made Nikki not entirely evil, as most other abusive mothers in literature often are. At times, she is a loving and caring mother, one who takes her kids on trips to the amusement park and splurges on an everything-you-can-eat breakfast at IHOP. But the scariest, and in my mind most realistic, part of Nikki's character is how suddenly she can switch moods and completely turn on her children.
It is because of Werlin's development of Nikki, and because of the realistic portrayal of the children's plight as seen through Matt's eyes, that I would give this book a 3.5 out of 5 stars. Some parts of the plot are quite predictable, and the letter format it's written in is sometimes a bit cliche, but I would still recommend this book to most anyone of high school age and above. Some mature themes and moments make it not a good fit for middle school age or below, but otherwise, a well-written book, one that shows how terrifying life with an abusive parent can be.
Reviewed by Mr. M